PORNOGRAPHY AND PUBERTY
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During puberty, there is a huge influx of hormones like testosterone and estrogen. These hormones increase the sexual drive in teenagers, making them curious about the act. Since most children do not find a safe and reliable environment to explore and discuss these feelings, they turn to pornography.
Web usage data indicates that children are accessing porn sites at a younger age. This affects their premature understanding of a sexual encounter and does not serve as a good frame of reference. Frequent viewing of pornography and addiction can lead to poor mental health and negatively affect relationships​. Most people use porn while masturbating.
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Impact on Teenagers
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Teens watch porn as an exciting and risk taking activity
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Teens also watch porn to gain a better understanding of sexual intimacy among their peer group
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Some violent and exaggerated depictions of sexual intercourse can serve as a bad example for teens, painting an unrealistic picture of sex and relationships
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Teens who frequent pornographic websites are reportedly less aware about the concept of “consent”
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Pornographic addiction is similar to substance addiction. The dopamine levels in the brain spike up for an addict, every time he/she views porn for self- gratification
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The addicted person has an urge to repeat the activity that led to release of dopamine during the porn.
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Brain starts releasing dopamine at the though of porn or sexual fantasy, which compels the person to watch the content again and again
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This ruins the need of an intimate relationship. Sex merely becomes an act for hormonal rush
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Porn can induce sexually aggressive behavior
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Porn can also cause the teenager to indulge in an earlier sexual encounter
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It also impacts the concept of self image in boys and girls, reducing their confidence about their physical appearance
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Impact on Relationships
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People conditioned by porn seek instant gratification and dopamine rush
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Seeking an instant dopamine rush can make one’s partner uncomfortable, creating a lot of hurdles in a relationship
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Many porn addicts have reported to have engaged in non-consensual intercourse with their partners, to imitate what they view on pornographic websites
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This can harm the relationship because sexual gratification and achieving an orgasm becomes more important than the emotional intimacy of a relationship
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Porn leads to lower sexual satisfaction as it sets unrealistic expectations
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Healthy Porn Consumption
The negative effects of pornography can be reduced if the consumption of porn is healthy. This requires the person to remember a few important pointers:
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Pornography is not realistic and it doesn't replace sex education
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It is very important to remember that pornography is a portrayal of sexual fantasies
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It does not serve as an example of what happens in real life and how things function in real life
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Be open about the consumption of porn with your partner​
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If the partner approves, try to share the experience
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Sneaking around and watching pornography can cause tensions in a relationship
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Be aware of multiple categories in porn
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It is important to remember that there exists many forms of pornography and some forms can reinforce some negative fantasies
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Porn with rape fantasies, violent sexual encounter or incest must be avoided to prevent any reinforcement
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Most of these categories are shot only for making money. They do not depict healthy relationships
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Self exploration
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Porn can help those who have been very reserved about their sexual desires and want to expand their horizons to explore fantasies
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It is important to maintain an open dialogue about pornography with friends and/or the partner to remove any taboo or misconceptions
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Avoid pornography before any real life sexual experience
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Teenagers or adults who watch porn before they experience any sexual intimacy in real life can develop the wrong frame of reference regarding sex
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